Hi and welcome!
I’m Neşe (pronounced Nesh-eh)
I am a certified Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapist ™ (RTT) and mindset coach.
I am here to help you look at your life with fresh perspective, identify where you want to be, explore what’s holding you back and help you move towards with clarity and commitment.
Life has been tough but it made me
the UNFICKWITHABLE WOMAN I am today!
I was 12 years old. I remember the day like it was yesterday. I was looking at the sky with a broken heart feeling lonely, disappointed - wishing for a better story - a better life. I didn’t know what to do. I felt hopeless. I asked the stars to take me back. Somehow, I knew I belonged to a magical place and this world didn’t make sense to me. I waited and waited… Nothing happened. I felt powerless, afraid, and lost. That was the moment I realized no one is coming to save me. And that I needed to do it myself. I didn’t know how at the time, but I had to find the way.
When that little girl unknowingly decided to fight for it rather than being the victim of her circumstances, everything has changed. My real story began…
Life is what happens to us,
when we’re busy making other plans
Growing up my home wasn’t safe. I wanted to graduate from university, find a job and leave as soon as I could. I aspired to become an independent and successful woman not knowing what that meant at the time.
Even though I enjoyed psychology and philosophy related subjects during high school, I was pushed to focus on Math, Physics because I was simply good at them, and I was told that I shouldn’t have ‘’wasted’’ my intelligence. I decided to study Economics assuming it was the ‘’right choice’’ for me. After graduation, I realized that I am amazed with human psyche and I decided to apply for a Master’s degree in Psychology however, I couldn’t as they only accepted Psychology graduates. So, I went for my 2nd choice, Gender Studies as I always considered myself a feminist. As a woman who experienced and observed inequality and injustice, studying Gender allowed me to dig deep and gain understanding of social construction of gender and see how gender influences the lives of people. It also gave me a chance to challenge conventional wisdom – which I do quite often!
Following this, I quickly found a ‘’good’’ job, my boyfriend at the time was ready for marriage and starting a family while I had other dreams. Even though it was scary and risky I left everything behind and moved to Italy. It was the 1st time I left ‘’home’’ and went to a foreign land. To be honest, it wasn’t easy at first but isn’t it always the case when you get out your comfort zone? Looking back that was one of the best decisions and the best year of my life. I not only discovered a beautiful land and met wonderful people, but it was also the beginning of my journey to self-discovery and healing.
When you replace,
"Why is this happening to me?" with "What is this trying to teach me?" EVERYTHING SHIFTS
While working for the most prestigious international organisations such as the United Nations, World Bank and the European Court of Human Rights throughout the years and building my career, in parallel I was building and enriching my spiritual world as well. I found wisdom in thousands of books, conversations, and my life lessons. I was already a master manisfestor, working with angels and energy/Reiki. I was doing shadow work, self-healing and gaining wisdom. But I was still hiding this side of my life which wasn’t widely accepted by society and most of the people around me.
I was equally proud and surprised when I received validation from people around me for what I have achieved professionally. But somehow, I always felt I wasn’t really fulfilled. Deep down I knew that I was meant for something else, but I still needed to accept myself and learn to be fearlessly authentic. I was on a mission to find my life purpose while enjoying the journey in the meantime.
I always said that the Universe was my employer, and it would send me wherever I am needed so that I could serve. Having that trust towards the Universe/the creator/source energy/god however you prefer to call it, kept me sane and safe during tough times. I was open to learn from life’s lessons and grow from them. Every time I managed to overcome a difficulty it made me a better version of myself and made life easier.
Since I was very young, I dreamed of traveling the world. This passion always stayed with me and still does to this day. I was amazed with the beauty of this planet and diversity of its inhabitants. Different languages, cultures and people fascinated me, and I needed to get to know them closely and discover new countries. And I did – to the fullest. However, it took me some time to realise that I discovered my true self while I was aiming to discover the rest of the world – which is the biggest discovery of all really…
The truth is always there,
whether you choose to face it or ignore it
I travelled all around the world to find who I was. I had to touch so many souls to finally feel mine. I faced my demons; I went to hell and back. I spent years to heal on my own and my journey of healing towards light continues.
For a long time, I was reluctant to take on the calling and scared to put myself out there. After finally accepting that I am here on a mission to help others heal and reclaim their power towards the life experience they seek, my life started to make more sense.
When I came across this fascinating technique called Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), it resonated with me instantly because the understanding I gained throughout my self-healing journey was aligned with this method. RTT is a combined method of cognitive behavioral therapy, hypnotherapy and positive psychology that is so powerful and efficient making this a shortcut towards a better, healed version of yourself. To learn more about this amazing technique please click here https://rtt.com/whatisrtt/
My passion and my area of excellence is helping women create permanent change and deep healing through subconscious rewiring. As your coach, I will empower you by challenging your doubts and perceptions that is holding you back in a meaningful and constructive way.
Your true self, that amazing woman is still there buried under cultural conditioning and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a kid.
Let’s bring her back. Let’s wake her up, hold her hand and take her out of that swamp! Are you ready?
I can’t wait to meet you!